Kibbles and bits

Time for my occasional link carnival - posts and articles that caught my fancy and just had to be shared. Enjoy!


Sometimes living in New Zealand is a disadvantage - there's no chance of me going to the World Erotic Art Museum in Washington, to see Lochai's exhibition. If you are nearby, though? Read the press-release, then go have a look at these gorgeous photographs!

Continuing its mission to present the work of artists whose controversial subject matter frequently collide with what is generally considered to be acceptable parlor art, owner/collector Naomi Wilzig will present an exhibit by award-winning photographer, Lochai, Monday, August 4 through August 30, at the World Erotic Art Museum, 1205 Washington Ave.

Read more here (hat-tip to Catalina for introducing me to Lochai's artwork in the first place).

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A whole lot of bloggers - myself included - write erotica (or think about writing it). And a whole lot of us read erotica as well. We've all read appallingly bad erotica too - both online and in print. M. Christian, however, writes the good stuff - and he's written a fantastic post called '10 Commandments of Smut':

IV: Thou Shalt Not Exaggerate (too much)
I’m big, but not the biggest - my girlfriend’s tits are nice, but not the nicest in the world. Same should go for your stories. Unless you’re being silly (or surreal), keep your proportions to a human level. Every cock can’t be tremendous, every pair of tits can’t be the most beautiful, every cunt (or asshole) the tightest, etc. It’s okay to hedge a bit, frame it with “- right then, at that moment -” or some such, but keep in mind that it’s a cheap-shot at both sex and your readers to assume that desire can only be the result of seeing (or fucking) something of inhuman proportions: it only makes you look like the biggest of amateurs.

Read more here.

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I was asked the other day if I'd consider working in a sex shop. I was asked this by the woman behind the counter at the sex shop - and you know what? I am considering it. But even if I wasn't, this Marie Claire article 'Confessions of a Sex-Shop Worker' is fascinating (despite the titillating title. Why 'confessions'??).

I grew skilled in helping the usual suspects: the woman with a newborn strapped to her chest seeking to avoid giving her husband blow jobs, the dowdy middle-ager who nonchalantly purchased lube by the quart, the graceful 60-year-old with long silver hair who bought the largest dildo I've ever seen ("I do think this will fit the bill").

Read more here.

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The delicious Cunning Minx (she of the Poly Weekly podcast) has created a great YouTube primer on polyamory, which is personable, personalised, and informative. Have a look for yourself!




photography, polyamory, sex blog

141 Sugasms

Congratulations to BadBadGirl and Ellie Lumpesse - I'm delighted you were in the top 3!

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #142? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks
Comedy vs. Tragedy
“Are you on your period? What? Did he just say…”

Ian, or, Sometimes Sex is Hilarious
“In short, it isn’t sex blogger sex.”

A Wish
“I wish that you could know the indescribable pleasure of being enfolded in your warm, gentle wetness.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice
Road Rage

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Forgetting
How Do You Flirt With Milk?
The Hunt
I Don’t Usually Date, but…
I have huge tits.
Men on Pointe
My Femme Cock
Nibbles and Bits: Vegetarian? Really? Doh!
Present and first love making

Sex Advice
How to Make Her Want Anal Sex
Play Safe
The Power of Suggestion- And How It Helps You Meet Women

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Gisele Bundchen Topless and Nipple Slip Pictures
HNT - Purple Lace Part Two
Lady Sascha Does HHNT
Marta - Professional
Once upon a time HNT
Pornsaint Tara Tainton
A rose by any other name would smell as sweet -HNT
Sam Bound

Sex Humor
It did not work
When your mother has more sex than you do…

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Can’t Get Enough
Fiction - The Wrong Smith Girl
Getting to fuck the neighbor 15
Harder…
In any language,…
Le Cadeaux
Nine: of nasty names
Oh Honey, Make Yourself Cum for Me
The Parking Garage
Pointless
The Ride.
Rub a Dub Dub
The Second Time Around
Slow.Soft.Hot.Perfect
Spin the bottle-the conclusion
Tits~n~Teets 2
TNT - Part 2
The Wanting
Writhe

Sex News, Reviews & Interviews
Can A Film Prostitute In 1930’s Shanghai Fare Any Better Than One Of The 100,000 Prostitutes Working The Streets In The City?
Donate To Satine Phoenix’s Tantric Exploration
Escort X: Find great escorts
Spanking erotica interview with Alison Tyler
The value of erotic blogging
Wanted: Your Orgasms Caught on Tape

BDSM & Fetish
Auction of a Slave
Changing Cravings For Pain: A Survey
A Beautifully Cruel Predicament Bondage Scene
Cuntwriting
Fitting Punishment
The house in Vienna
July MVK: Play piercing
Leather Retreat 2008 – The Toll Booth
Mz Berlin Gets The Bastinado And Rack Torture On Hogtied
Necessary Roughness
Routine Maintenance, pt. 2
A Scene in Three Parts … (part III)
Taken and Collared as a Sex Slave while her husband sleeps
Telegraph
Trying on new shoes, Friday night edition

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See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

Enamoured

It can be difficult to find the time to check out everyone's HNT photos. In this regular feature, I showcase my favourite pics of the week. If you like them, please visit the blogger in question and let them know - I certainly have.

Visually, there are a variety of different things which attract me, arouse me, enamour me. Whether it's an attitude, an accessory, or something else entirely - I find myself taking a second look; licking my lips; creating fantasies.

Here are some of them, this week. I do so love to fantasise.


I look at the way Anon is kneeling, stretched out, on the bed. I imagine sliding my hands up her back, feeling the pull of muscles. I drop my head and trace her tattoo with my tongue. I ignore her lovely knickers - for now - but I can smell the gentle aroma of arousal permeating through them.



Vic may be subdued with her ankles tied together, but there's still fire in her eyes. As I lean over for a kiss, she captures my lower lip and bites down hard. As I melt against her, her knee grinds into my crotch. Yes, she's definitely still in charge.


What is Baby going to do to me, with that toy? Will she fuck my mouth with it? Bend me over the side of the bed and fuck my cunt with it? Or will she hand it to me, smile prettily, and let me do with it as I will?


As I sit across the carriage from Eris, I idly wonder if she's wearing anything under her skirt. If I slid my hand up under the soft black fabric would there be lace or skin? Would she be packing, the better for me to flip up her skirt and suck her? Or would I sink deep into meltingly hot flesh instead?


If you missed them, here's your chance to visit earlier favourites:
Patterns
Thoughtful Exposure
Accessorise!
New experiences

hnt, photography, sex blog

Raunchy Review: Hitachi Magic Wand

I really didn't know what all the fuss was about the Hitachi Magic Wand. All over the internet, sex bloggers swooned over this toy and the orgasms it gave them. Surely it couldn't be that much better than a battery-powered vibrator?

But oh, how wrong I was! It's hard to know you're wrong until you try something - and living in New Zealand, I hadn't had the chance to try one. Luckily for me, Kiana (who had moved here from the US) brought hers to a play party.

And so my love affair with the Hitachi began (that's the link to my review - go have a read).

Speaking of the play party: there are six of us, three car-loads of toys, a large house, and eighteen hours of depravity. Bloody marvellous.

And out of her bag, Kiana pulls her Hitachi Magic Wand, an attachment, a condom, and a step-down transformer. This beast looked like a power-tool - and sounded like it too! She slipped a condom over it (explaining that if I gushed the way I normally do, I'd fry the insides - not to mention it was her toy, so sheathing it for me was purely sensible), plugged in into the transformer (American power outlets being different to NZ), and turned to me with a grin. I was naked, lying on towels on the floor, half in the lounge and half in the dining room. Mildly nervous.

Until she pressed the Hitachi gently into my cunt and turned it on. GUH! I spasmed, grunted, gripped the floor, groaned, and proceeded to gush everywhere. It had been about fifteen seconds.

That was just the low setting, she proceeded to tell me with delight.

Kiana and her Hitachi were popular for the rest of the party, and more than once it had to be turned off in order to cool down. I had more orgasms from it; Nausicaa and Medea were teased through plastic wrap with it; and everyone generally had a good time.

So, naturally, I had to own one for myself. Thursday's Child came to my aid, putting together a care package (including Hitachi and attachment) and sending one to me so quickly that I received it less than a month after my initial introduction to it. The very day the parcel arrived I went and bought a transformer, and proceeded to go home and try it out.

Oh yeah... I love my Hitachi.

It's gotten a lot of play since then. Not only do I use it for masturbating (preferably during a warmer part of the day, as getting it at the correct angle under a massive pile of blankets is somewhat challenging), it also gets used for scenes, for sex, and for actual massages.

Turns out this thing is amazing at what it was originally designed for: giving shoulder and back massages. Medea melts into a puddle with it on her shoulders; I love it on my lower back; Apollo prefers it around the bottom of his ribs. But all yummy.

Dionysos likes it for a quite different reason: experimenting with transferring vibrations (and tormenting me in the process). The straight attachment is great because the vibrations go from the head of the Hitachi up through the probing end - and if you're using it as a dildo, you can feel it all the way up inside. But the vibrations also pass through rope, through pegs, and through fingers ...

Pegs has become a particular favourite of Dionysos. Tying me up so I can't move and my cunt is exposed, he put pegs on my labia and proceeds to torment me with the vibrations. Doing it with the attachment means he can pass the vibrations through the pegs to tease me, then fuck me with it to tease me, then go back to passing it through the pegs. While I vainly attempt to wriggle and move and clench - and fail at all of it.

For a more intense and localised vibration, placing one peg on my clit (at the base) and using the attachment to send vibrations there and only there also works. I was incredibly close to tipping over the edge, which would have gotten me in so much trouble ...


I love my Hitachi. It lives by my bed. It goes with me to parties and lovers' houses. It brings relaxed muscles, (many) orgasms, and pleasure.

I get what all the fuss is about!


sex blog, sex toy, sex toy review

Once upon a time HNT

It starts like all stories do: Once upon a time. And ends like all stories should: with a happy ending.

Once upon a time there was a young woman who started to gain weight. For the next decade, despite her efforts, her curves grew curvier and her flesh became fleshier. She would look, in despair, at pictures of herself at seventeen and at - she thought - her 'ideal' weight, and wondered what she was doing wrong, that she could not stay slim.

Then, one day, the not-quite-as-young young woman was able to look at herself with fresh eyes. She had lifted the veil of her prejudices and social conditioning: she recognised that she was beautiful, and bountiful - fat, voluptuous, and curvaceous!



The weight she had gained had settled into a new configuration on her bones, and it was one which suited her - one which was ideal for her.

She looked again at the photographs of her younger self, and saw what she had been unable to see earlier: that she had looked good like that, but she looked better like this.



And so she ran her hands down her waist and hips. She turned in the mirror and jiggled her arse and thighs. She pressed her fingers into her warm and fleshy mons. She delighted in the stretch-mark tributaries that followed the curves of her body. She admired the back rolls so like her mother's.

And she saw that she was beautiful.



All stories should have a happy ending. And this one does.



Don't forget to have a look at my favourite HNT's from last week, featuring Ms. Inconspicuous, Renee, Jezebel and Bittersweet!

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Sugasm #140 & Editor's Choice squee

In a week full of excellent submissions to Sugasm, I am delighted to be Editor's Choice - my thanks (and smooches!) to the Editor. And to anyone who voted for me, of course...

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #141? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks
“Are you a sex blogger or a sexy blogger?”
“It builds a community that I am so proud to be part of.”

The J Word
“And while you’re with her, I’ll be with him.”

Transcending moment
”It’s that place between fear and arousal, and they are so very closely related.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice
Chill Pleasure

BDSM & Fetish
Bathroom bang
Bros Not Hoes - F/m Spanking Video Clip
Cock training
Galerías de spanking: Spanking Server
Games Grown Ups Play
The Most Amazing Sex (and I didn’t come)
Mr. and Mrs. Kink Have Great Sex (Again)
My First Ever Fetish Photography Shoot & Other Wonderful Things
New spanking gallerie - Two girls spanked
Religion and BDSM
Rope
TES Fest 2008 was fabulous!
Your Slut

Sex Advice
Ask Miss Bliss-How Do I Know If A Girl Likes Me?
Fetish Safety - Branding
The Kivin Method: Guaranteed Orgasm for Women

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Advanced Exhibitionism
Autobiography of a Masturbator: Porn O’Graphicus, Part 2
Club Tantra: My Experience, Unabridged
Distraction
Fucking no foreplay
Getting to fuck the neighbor 9
Him
HNT - Peach
Insanity never felt so good
Interludes - part 1
Memoir Of A Married Woman
Popping His Cherry
Re: Dinner Last Night
“Red Bottoms” (Complete)
Sloppy Seconds, Then Thirds
That Time of the Month
Whiskey Kisses (unedited)

Sex Work
Sex Worker Solidarity: Catalina
Happy Thoughts on Being a Phonesex Op…
Stamp on my forehead saying “ask me about your fetish”

Sex & Politics
Natalia Antonova on Objectification and Desire
Teen Sex: The New After-School Special?
Women Enjoy Relative Sexual Freedom this 4th of July

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Bedroom Radio #18: Artemis Hunter and the Silver Bullet
Calstar Spanking - Severe deep stripe marks
Cheerleader is tired in gangbang video
Free video audition of Amsterdam sex performer
Half-Nekkid and Getting Shaved
HNT - A bit cheeky
HNT - Purple Lace
Making Love to the Camera
Mz Berlin Took This Picture Of Herself In Her New Wasp Creation Corset

Sex Humor
Top 6 Reasons for Not Shaving Your Beaver

Sex News, Reviews & Interviews
Catalina loves Lochai
Comstock Films
Drink Semen for Better Health
Interview about spanking erotica with Spanked contributor Teresa Noelle Roberts
January Seraph Is A Hot Femdom Dominating Jade Indica In Lesbian Latex Role Play
The Monday Buzz: The Bandito
Penny Flame Fucks A Handyman With A Strap-On and Feeds Him His Own Cum
Product Research: Blow Job Dildo
Yes! Yes! Yes! Personal Lubricant

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Be nice… until it is time to not be nice…
Finding out your good friends are swingers
Naughty Text Messages and Perverted Friends Makes Life Fun
Sex Advice Review: “Tips to Better Sex and Sleep”
Silence.

More Sugasm
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Patterns

It can be difficult to find the time to check out everyone's HNT photos. In this regular feature, I showcase my favourite pics of the week. If you like them, please visit the blogger in question and let them know - I certainly have.

Bodies are beautiful. There are patterns everywhere for the eye to see - in lines and in curves; in shapes and in angles. And with clothing, there are patterns that can be played upon and enjoyed all the more...


With her long pink socks, Ms. Inconspicuous gives us patterns - the white stripes on her socks at a near right angle to the subtle lines of her ribcage, and shown again with the horizontal blinds on the window.



I can't get over this delightful smile from Renee. From there the viewer's eye is drawn down the centre of the photo to her pendant, and eventually to the delicious line of her cleavage.



I am a puddle of lust looking at Jezebel - and much admiring of the lacy fabric of her underthings. I wonder if pressing up against her will leave patterns in her skin?



Bittersweet plays with contrasts so beautifully. The balance of jet socks against alabaster skin; the akimbo splay of her legs against the flat of the mattress. Both of which draw the eye to the lower point of the shot: her subtly outlined, not-quite-hidden cleft.




If you missed them, here's your chance to visit earlier favourites:
Thoughtful Exposure
Accessorise!
New experiences
Around the curves

hnt, photography, sex blog

Raunchy Review: Double Trouble

I love spending time with my female-bodied partners, and spending that time getting orgasmic with them. And while what I can (and they can) do with with fingers and mouths is amazing, sometimes being able to penetrate (or be penetrated) adds a little extra.

I learned that when I tried out a harness with Medea - and I confirmed it when Demeter and I recently played with a double-ended dildo. That one over there on the right. Yes, the huge, thick one over there on the right.

My full review of the Double Trouble Thick by Doc Johnson is up on EdenFantasys now - but all the pictures of Demeter and I experimenting with it are right here!







This toy is really long - 12 inches - and the packaging makes it even longer! It was rather fun rescuing it from the plastic packaging, though (a shame it didn't come with a bag to keep it in, as the packaging isn't optimum for keeping it in. I store mine in a biodegradable corn-starch bag, and keep it in the toy box).


Look how bendy it is! That flexibility will be quite important. Note that it's actually two pieces of 'Silagel', with one firmly attached/glued to the other. They won't come apart.


I feel like Hatchet Harry (from Lock Stock and Two Smoking Barrels). Granted, this is a whole inch shorter.

Let me tell you about Hatchet Harry. Once there was this geezer called Smithy Robinson who worked for Harry. It was rumoured that he was on the take. Harry invited Smithy round for an explanation. Smithy didn't do a very good job. Within a minute Harry lost his temper and reached for the nearest thing at hand, which happened to be a fifteen-inch black rubber cock. He then proceeded to batter poor Smithy to death with this; that was seen as a pleasant way to go . . . Hence, Hatchet Harry is a man you pay if you owe.


For something this thick (I measured it at about 1.5 inches in diameter), lube is going to be a necessity!


I'm such a nice girl - I let Demeter try it out first. She takes it well though. Me, I wonder if the toy isn't just too long. How far in are we expected to insert this?


Demeter's tried one end, and I get to try the other. I feels pretty damned good - although very wide indeed. I don't want to take it in too deep, as it gets rather uncomfortable. (As an aside: now I've been successfully fisted for the first time, I may find something this size a bit more fun. Must play with it again.)


After an orgasm and some rest time, Demeter and I did our reviewer-y duty and tried using it simultaneously. To our slight surprise, we both enjoyed using it duo much more than either of us did when using it solo! With her lying back and me kneeling above her, we both had the fat ends of the dong sitting at the edges of our vaginal canal. Additionally, the bend of the toy meant it rubbed most pleasantly.


We made the most of it, while Apollo made the most of photographing us making the most of it. Because surely watching us get off with a double-ended dildo is nearly as hot as participating?


Conclusion: the Double Trouble Thick looks scary as anything, despite it's bright-pink colour. But it's fun to play with, and fun to use - and if the thickness is a little much, they are also available in Medium and Thin. Handy, that.



sex blog, sex toy, sex toy review

Staying Warm HNT

The wind is blowing directly off Antarctica, and temperatures have dropped precipitously. The latest power bill is painfully high, but that doesn't stop heaters and electric blankets being turned on.

Searching the top shelf of my wardrobe for something warmer to wear, I find the pashmina I inherited from Demeter on the last clothing clear-out. Wrap it around myself, over my singlet, skivvy, jersey. As I brave the bitter winds by the airport, it keeps me warm.

And I keep it in mind for my next HNT shoot with Dionysos.


The pashmina is warm wool, black, with a slightly ticklish fringe at the ends. And it's long - long enough to wrap around myself, or cover my thighs, or muffle my face to stay warm. Why did Demeter ever give this up?


But, of course, being talked to, teased, cosseted by Dionysos (and having the gas heater on full blast) is warming me up. Just enough that I can tease him right back, showing him my body, knowing he'll be tormenting me later.


Who am I? (I'm Batman!) Well, maybe not, but it's delicious to contrast the wool with my skin - to flash my warmed flesh before re-wrapping myself, no hint of depravity still showing. Until later, anyhow.

Don't forget to have a look at my favourite HNT's from last week, featuring Charlie, Bezbe, Madame X, Minx and Rori!

hnt, sex blog, winter

Bits and bobs

Lochai does amazing and iconic photography, of the type you remember for years once seeing (the one on the right, Alyssa Bound, is one of my favourites). Right now the lovely Catalina Ramirez is doing a Lochai Pledge Drive, where donating $$ gets you a signed thank-you print. Sounds pretty good!

Here’s the rundown - you donate to Lochai’s upcoming shows. Donations are simple and easy - log into PayPal and use Lochai’s email address (nawalochai @ kirinawa.com). You can even use your credit card. In return, as a thank-you gift, you receive one of Lochai’s signed prints. The print you will receive will be chosen by Lochai and is from his award-winning gallery.

Read the whole post, with details, here.

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And we all know who The Wet Spots are, right? 'Do you take it (in the ass)?' was the first song of theirs I came across, quickly followed by 'Fist Me this Christmas'. And they've kept on making wacky, rude and racy songs (no wonder I like them so much), many of which you can find on their YouTube channel. Now, Naked City is doing a competition with the Wet Spots, utilising their latest song, Public Service Announcement:

Starting today, creative types are invited to write a new verse to a Wet Spots song called Public Service Announcement, which is about things that you should not put in your ass - a YouTube video is below so you can study up on the rhyme pattern.

The winning verse and entertaining runners-up, as judged by me and the Wet Spots, will be published here on Naked City on July 24th, and the winning verse will be used in the song at the Zipper Factory show, plus immortalized in a Naked City TV video of the performance.

Read the whole post, with details and video, here. I'm thinking up my verse to enter!

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I've been subscribed to Jack Rinella's weekly column, Leather Views, for a good few years now, and am always learning something new (it helps that the scene he's in is about as far removed from my scene as it's possible to get, and still be in the scene). In his latest missive, he announced his new book: 'The Dictionary of Scene-Friendly Terms'. Having checked out the sample pdf, containing a small portion of the book, I am most impressed. It's definitely a first version, but it's something that's been sorely needed for a long time.

In case you’re wondering, I don’t think that I’m necessarily an expert when it comes to our subculture’s vocabulary. I say that because I use the more restrictive definition whenever possible. When I interview a slave-applicant, for instance, I define the term slave as one in a state of voluntary servitude marked by obedience and surrender. So who’s going to accept my sole opinion? I bet very few in this “herd” of cats would.

In compiling this dictionary I hope that I have overcome this dilemma and covered my ass in three ways. First, and most importantly, is that I have compiled these 350 words (approximately) from the glossaries of some of the most important books we have. Deborah Anapol (Polyamory, The New Love Without Limits), Race Bannon (Learning the Ropes), Molly Devon and Philip Miller(Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism), and Jay Wiseman (SM 101) have all graciously allowed me to use their definitions.

I've been unable to find a link to the complete column including the above text, but you can subscribe to his weekly emails here.

bdsm, photography, sex blog

Chill pleasure

I pull the glass dildo from it's fur pouch, and a shiver goes through me as I feel the solid coldness of it. Smooth and rounded, weighted and clear, it holds all the chill of winter within itself.

Other than my questing hand, the rest of me is snuggled deep into flannelette sheets; the winter duvet and two blankets weighs warm atop of me. Resting by my feet is a toasty wheat-bag; another is by my groin. (Over the other side of the bed, Apollo's feet clasp a hot-water bottle instead. To each their own.)

Why do I want such a cold object within me on such a cold night? Perhaps because I know how quickly it will warm.

Apollo is watching me, so I slip the cool spirals of the dildo between my lips, and slide my tongue across it. He shivers, and I smile. It tastes good, feels smooth. I can't wait to tuck it down between warm sheets and hot cunt.

First, I dig in my bedside drawer for my silicone lube, and upend the dildo so the spirals face the ceiling. A drizzle a few (cold!) drops onto the tip, and use my finger-tips to ensure it covers most of the surface. Once I am satisfied, I lift the sheets to let my arm in, and spread my legs to allow access.

I have been wet for hours, and feeling my wetness - hot and inviting - ever since I slid into our warm bed. The first touch of icy glass against my tropical lips is a marvellous shock, and I feel a shudder start at my groin and spread up my body as I slowly press the slippery dildo into me.

It's hard. It's hard and cold and filling and fulfilling. I push it in to the full length, leaving only the bulbous handle out. I press it up and down and it levers the tip of the spiral into the sponginess of my g-spot, a firm ball-bearing of frozen water.

It feels fantastic. It's an ice-block on a hot summers day, a cool shower in the middle of the afternoon. It's lotion on hot skin.

It's a glass dildo in my hot cunt, and as I fuck myself with it and gush gloriously hot fluid, all I am thinking of is the pleasure of contrasts.

When I'm done, spent, and slowly pull it out of me, the dildo is no longer chill. And neither am I.



Image from this gorgeous gallery at Gallery Carre.

glass dildo, masturbation, sex blog

Thoughtful exposure

It can be difficult to find the time to check out everyone's HNT photos. In this regular feature, I showcase my favourite pics of the week. If you like them, please visit the blogger in question and let them know - I certainly have.

Sometimes the right photo for an HNT post can be an off-the-cuff, unplanned snap. Other times, there's been planning and thought involved, and a desire to capture a particular look.

Whether they were planned or spontaneous, each of this week's pictures gives the impression of time, thoughtfulness and framing. And the results are beautiful.

The delicious contrast of sunlight and shade gives Charlie a partial silhouette in this shot. I am particularly drawn to the way the sun halos through her hair.


If you click for a larger view, you'll s